JUST GO WITH IT

Sometimes we find our selves in situations that you dont know what to do. I have been in such situations my self, situations which lives my wondring if its the end of everything, What i have leant from it is that you just go wih the flow. The other day i was watching a movie and someone said something that has changed the way i see things in my world. The particular individual was advising a friend who thought she had lost everything she said " my dear yes you are troubled but then whats the use of worriying if you can not do anything about it it might seem like a small thing but these words changed my. Am one of those people that worry and stress alot but after the movies i realised that my stress and worry doesnt solve anything. that lady in the movie was actually right if you cant change the way things are going dont worry about them rather think of hat you will do to prevent such situation from happening again. we all human one way or the other we will error but what differentiate us is how we deal with our flows. I hope i was of help.. remember its all about being optimist and believing that there is always light at the end of the tunnel. And also understanding that no matter how dark iit seems there will always be a away out hence it is your duty either to follow that light or ignore it.

TIME FLIES....

Talking about life passing us by without noticing. Just recently i was an eager high school leaver excited about going to college it seems like yesterday. Today am talking about finishing my third year at university truly time flies if you do not have a clear picture of what your life is going then you will be surprised to be at the age of 40 with no plan or any achievement. we should plan our lives and know where we are going. The saying goes like an early bird gathers the the fattest worm. Therefore it is in our hands to make sure that we shape our destinies while there is still time. May you might be asking questions like how do you plan your life? here are some tips that can help you plan your future and also help you spend your tim

Steps1

1.    Go to a quiet place , where you can think without being interrupted.

2.    Go through your life thoroughly. What is your gift? What do you want to be in the future? What is your passion? (i.e., something you would love to do even if you were not paid to do it.)

3.    Write it down. Most of the people who have achieved their dreams took the first step towards achieving them: they wrote them down.

4.    Plan a route to get there. Write down whatever it will take you to reach your dream.

5.    Put your piece of paper where you can see it and remind yourself of your goals.

6.    Work your plan. Put it into action by following the route to your dream. It may mean adjusting a lot of things in your life, but it will be worth it one day.

7.    Start a savings account and deposit 25% of your monthly income. Then when you need to buy a car, etc., you'll already have a lot of what you'll need.

8.    Dismiss negativity and begin to speak your future in the present. This will assimilate into your mind and help you to persevere towards your dream.

Tips

• Talk to your parents, guidance counselors, etc., about what they think you would be good at and how to get there. You may not want to, but remember, they went through this too.
• The difference between a big shot and a little shot is that a big shot is just a little shot who kept on shooting!

Warnings

• Don't do drugs.
• Never give up on your dreams.
• Believe in yourself.
• Know the kind of friends you keep and move around with. Be your own person, not a follower!
• Ignore criticism, stay focused.
• Think before you make a move.
• Stand up again , If you fall ever .

e wisely.

SOMETIMES WE DONT GET SECOND CHANCES IN LIKE

“I tell of hearts and souls and dances...
Butterflies and second chances;
Desperate ones and dreamers bound,Seeking life from barren ground,Who suffer on in earthly fate The bitter pain of agony hate,Might but they stop and here forgive Would break the bonds to breathe and live
And find that God in goodness brings A chance for change, the hope of wings To rest in Him, and self to die And so become a butterfly.” 
― Karen Kingsbury

I took my time of today just to think about my past the mistakes that i have made and how they reflect my future. They say the past is what defines the future. While conteplating on my past i have come to realise that indeed sometimes we never given second chances and we end up living with the mistakes that we made. I dont always make the right decisions but what i have leant is that i tend to make decisions without thinking about the concequences of my decisions. then i regret it later that had i thought the situation through probably the result could have been different.

What am trying to say is that not all of us are lucky to relive our situation. Therefore, there is a need for us to think before we act rationalise the the situation and come up with a solution that you are happy with such that if in the future you are questioned about it then you should be able to answer for it. Probably you asking yourself why am i writing about this the answer is simple i have made mistakes that i wish i ccould turn back the hands of time and redo what i did but ofcoz there is no second chance. i just hope that you all wont be like me 

THINK BEFORE YOU ACT. I know its not easy but if we adopt such thinking then we dont have to worry about making mistakes that we regret in the future

 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY DEAR MALAIKA

Birthdays are always special days to some people. To those who see them as special days they celebrate by having parties or go out to the mall. In general people celebrate their birthdays in different  ways. Today happens to be my cousin birthday, Malaika Phekani she is turning 11 years today. I must say time flies i cant believe that the little girl i knew is now turning into a woman am really proud to be her cousin. I  know for sure that God has been faithful enough to keep her safe up to today. All we have to do is thank the almighty for keeping her safe. am sure she is going to have friends over at the house to celebrate her day. Personally i don't always celebrate my birthday though some times i  a little something to acknowledge the day i was born.  Its not that i hate birthdays no i just don't mind not celebrating mine i am glad that she is showing interest in her own birthday and defiantly i will celebrate with her. 

DAY OUT

Sometimes we all in to take time off our busy lives and enjoy nature, breathing fresh air and forgetting our daily schedules as one writer said "  I am never alone wherever I am. The air itself supplies me with a century of love. When I breathe in, I am breathing in the laughter, tears, victories, passions, thoughts, memories, existence, joys, moments, and the hues of the sunlight on many tones of skin; I am breathing in the same air that was exhaled by many before me. The air that bore them life. And so how can I ever say that I am alone?” ― C. JoyBell C. We all need such kind of life changing moments were you take a day out alone just to think though about your life. Well today was was of those days i just had to go out to the park and had a me time. Honestly i didn't realize how much i need such a day out. most amazing thing happened day i made new friend had interactions with different people it was such a refreshing day. Not only was i able to think through what was troubling me i also managed to have solutions to life threatening issue. You see when you are on a fast lain in life you find that you make hasty decision that may come back to haunt you. the best way is to take a day off be with friends or family just drink in the fresh air forget about everything and just enjoy the day  as if it was your last day. you will find out that after the day your mind becomes fresh and you able to think through about your situation. 

TREASURE WHAT YOU HAVE WHILE YOU STILL CAN

They say many are times we tend to take people for granted no matter what they do to please us we turn them away. to day i just want to remind us that life is too short not to appreciate people. Today you with them the next day they are gone. Therefore love those who love you, appreciate those that care and show interest in you. From my on experiences i have had my ex's wanting me back after along period of time what amazes me is that while we where dating all they did was to look down upon me thinking i was caring and loving them now they see am happy they want to come and destroy the relationship i already have.

 You know whats funny is that even after all the long period of separation  they still come back and expect you to have the same feeling for them how lame is that/.  All am saying is that don't take people for granted you never know what the future holds maybe the person you think is nothing is actually your destiny. Next thing you wake up in the morning and you realized that you made a mistake and you want to go back to them  unfortunately its too late for you the person has moved on. What do you next you label everyone wrong yet from the begging you the one who didn't realize the value of the person. when you love love with all your heart, care for that person as if it was your last day in so doing what ever happens you have no regrets in thinking had i done that things could have been different.